I saw a touching, hilarious movie today that got so many things right, and was so near perfect, I’m still bowled over by it.
After seeing this movie, I would surmise that, much like SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE, this film – director Lisa Cholodenko’s THE KIDS ARE ALL RIGHT - could very well catch a wave of serious momentum and excellent word of mouth and make a run at BEST PICTURE/BEST DIRECTOR, if not BEST ACTRESS and BEST SUPPORTING ACTOR and ACTRESSS, as well as BEST ORIGINAL SCREENPLAY. The movie was that good.
It stars Annette Benning, Julianne Moore, Mark Ruffalo, Mia Wasikowska (who you might recall as Alive in Tim Burton’s ALICE IN WONDERLAND), and Josh Hutcherson (who’s been in a bunch of stuff when he was younger, but hasn’t really hit it yet.) And was written by Cholodenko and writer Stuart Blumberg (who’s best know for writing Edward Norton’s directorial debut, KEEPING THE FAITH, which was a well-written film. There is so much to be amazed by and love in this film – almost every piece of it is a revelation, as is the whole. The performances are nothing short of stunning – all of them. Though, the two teenagers are beyond exceptional and it might very well be Julianne Moore’s greatest performance – so far out of what we;re used to seeing from her. She was spellbinding in MAGNOLIA, but that was more ferocious. Her character here is so much more vulnerable and sweet and real, not to mention frustrated and hilarious and goofy. I mean there are so many layers happening and none of them – in her performance, in the other performances, or even in the entire film, bring the experience crashing down. It’s a testament to the knock-your-socks-off directing achievement that Cholodenko accomplishes. Her previous films, HIGH ART and LAUREL CANYON, while fantastic, did not achieve this total level of savvy, heartfelt confidence to let the story and characters be the story and characters and then the deft ability to mine the insight and wisdom she poured into the script in the way she constructed the film.
I mean, the use of silence alone, was just masterful. One of the most telling things I can say, in regards to how absolutely perfect the direction is, was that in certain moments I would expect an emotional moment to be explained to death, or an obvious lantern hung on it (that’s screenwriter slang) some important emotional bit or plot bit with a few lines of dialogue or key narrative points/set-ups to be remade with repeated bits or actorly business. I expect these things because we’re dogged (as writers) with notes to “clarify,” “you’re being too smart for the room,” “take it down a bit,” “Make it clearer” and so a facial expression or a moment of silence between two characters is too subtle, no one will get that, so make sure they say several times, outright, “I’m mad at you” or “I love you because of x,y,and z” then cutaway to a close-up of x,y, and z. It’s storytelling with a sledgehammer. In THE KIDS ARE ALL RIGHT, I would hit those moments and be looking for the lantern to be hung on them or the sledgehammer to come out and it never did. Not once. I was bowled over at this by the end. There was nothing pat or easy about the consequences for and the growth of all the characters. It was life in all its glory, a modern family navigating the rocky shoals of being a modern family, together, despite all their everyday ups and downs.
I could rave on and on. I immediately wanted to head back in and watch it again. I fear I’m hyping it too much, but I don’t know if I care with this film. So often these days, films of this nature – personal, real, adult dramas with some humor and pathos mixed in – films that dare to not give in to marketing plans and test audiences and demographics, but rather follow the heart of the story they weave and leave it at that – with all the loose ends and silences and sweet, unexplained moments that come with being true to an honest narrative – get lost in the shuffle, can’t find financing, get buried at the box office. Trust me, I don’t mean to get on a soap box. I kind of like to write those big, brawling summer movies; but I also like the heartfelt character drama and I guess I just don’t understand anymore why – in this huge, successful industry – it has to be on or the other? Why can’t we have both and encourage both? We used to and we were so much better for it.
I have included a link to the NY Times review. Normally, I wouldn’t encourage anyone to read a film review in advance of seeing the film, if at all. I don’t think film criticism can be entirely trusted in this country these days, even at the venerable New York Times. By that I mean that, instead of focusing on analyzing the film as a film, critics now seem to have shifted to analyzing a film as a business proposition and a pop culture artifact all at once, with little regard for its cinematic intent. Anyways, this review, by A.O. Scott, nails the feeling I had walking out of the theater and my thoughts on the THE KIDS ARE ALL RIGHT, hours later, after I had been able to really process the wonder and thrill of seeing such a truly fabulous piece of work.
NY TIMES Review of THE KIDS ARE ALL RIGHT
If you don’t wish to read it though, and I understand entirely if you don’t; I’ve included a quote below, which I think really sums up all that the movie accomplishes and has to offer:
Ms. Cholodenko’s film, which she wrote with Stuart Blumberg, is so canny in its insights and so agile in its negotiation of complex emotions that it deserves to stand on its own. It is outrageously funny without ever exaggerating for comic effect, and heartbreaking with only minimal melodramatic embellishment.
It is in very limited release right now, but hopefully it will finds its way into a true, wide release. I’m actually a little stunned its being released in the middle of the summer. It has fall, awards season release all over it and should’ve been released in November. To give you an idea of how limited – it’s only playing in one theater in Los Angeles. It had such advanced buzz here, a two o’clock showing was nearly sold out in a large theater. The ladies next to us, both older, had driven two hours to see the movie and were raving about it afterward, saying it was worth the drive.
That’s a good movie.